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I was ramaging through my folder of word documents, stuff that I wrote out before I started this, or interesting stuff that friends send me. This next one is one sent by non other than Master Botak, think it was the first time I ever talked to him online, and of course, it had to be about women... haha ... but hey, that's what friendships are born out of. I do apologise if I'm in a way ripping you off Evs ...
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Dear Men & Women/Boys & Girls,
It has come to my attention that there has been a rather interesting e-mail circulating about what kind of guys women detest. As a personal opinon, I feel that in general, women nowadays are asking too much from men and are too choosy with what they can get. For some reason they always think if the man they get is perfect, well then good. If he has a small certain flaw then he is terrible. Somehow a majority of women nowadays are aiming above their capabilites it seems. I think they must be getting influenced too much by new groups like Destiny's Child and their songs like "Independent Women". They act like then can manage everything on their own without a man in their lives and if a man is in their life, they want full control. Women were sent to earth for a reason. A man should be the support to the 50% of what a woman lacks and his woman should realise that he is not perfect either and that they in vice-versa should also be the other 50% for what he lacks. This is what a relationship is about. So you women out there , when you think that you can be ultra-choosy and pick on guys weak points and exploit them, remember that nobody is perfect and neither are you. If you want to be such an independent woman, you don't really need a man, so why bother dressing your ass up every single day to attract men that you know are below your standards... Wake up your idea lah! Here is my response to the survey found, attached below. The 10 things guys found unattractive about women.
Regards'
Evan ' -------------------------------
1) A "Poser" Woman
This is the typical woman, most guys find utterly worthless. Dressing up everyday to catch as many eyes of a man as possible. And spending hours in front of the mirror to put on a show to the rest of the world. Saying, "Hey look at me!" Being in a relationship with this kind of woman makes a man feel insecure. A strong man might give less of himself to her while the weaker ones will become greatly possesive and suspicous. No harm in looking good no doubt, just don't make it seem that your looks is everything your world revolves around.
2)Egotistc
This kind of woman feels that she can get any guy she wants depending on her mood, and what the guy is willing to give. Things are never good enough for this one. She will act "Boh-Chup" at times and make a guy feel jealous when he doesn't satisfy her wants/demands.
3)The Liar Playgirl
These girls are one of the most dangerous, so fellow guys never fall in love with one, or else you are plain and simply stupid. She will be an easy one to get in actual fact. Just show you like her and she will know how to play the strings of your heart. She will also try to act like she is hard to get, so that you will think she is a good girl and bluff the way into your heart. Once you get her, she will be easy to get into bed and there may be a danger of her being really good in bed and controlling you even further. She will openly flirt with other guys, to see if she can exchange something better for you if it comes along. She will always do this, "Just a friend mah?? Why you always don't trust me?" Yeah, guys are suspicous for a reason, they want to make sure that they are giving their heart to the right woman. But this is no reason not to trust a girl, don't forget to learn to slowly trust. Never make being suspicious an excuse unless you know she is a play-girl deep down inside.
4)The Act "Cold Heart" Woman
This kind of woman is one of the hardest to understand. She may have been hurt by men before and now finds it hard to trust their new man. They find if very hard to open up and say whats on their mind or express feelings without holding back. Being in a relationship with them feels like you are playing a game of chess. It might take time or it might take forever to win. Good Luck.
5)"Tai-Tai" Wannabies
Ok girls get over it, its the new world and we are living in the future. Its not gonna be easy to have a family with one bread-winner. Its no more the days of Camelot where your guy is going to ride up on his horse, take you to his castle and make you his bride while he goes out to battle and you eat and be merry. A man deeply values a woman that can be is aid in times of need and help be the support of the family. A woman that can help him makes him feel like a Superman with backup from Wonderwoman. Every man is looking for their wonderwoman, this is very attractive. So you "Tai-Tai" wannabies better snap out of your dream.
6)The Lie Addict
Wow, this one brings a man lots of headache, please if you every get into a relationship with this one, dump her quick. She will bring you nothing but jealousy and unstability. She lies about everything just to make you have 100% confidence about her. She may be afraid to be up-front about things due to the fear of you thinking otherwise. Please lah girls, if your are upfront about things from the start of dating, the guy will understand, appreaciate and be more flexible with you. She will tend to lie about the simplest things, like "I was out with only girls..." when you never even questioned if she went out with other guys. The matter of the fact may be that you don't even mind but she has to lie cause she is afraid to be caught. Lying is a good sign of bad things to come. A girl has to lie it is a sign of guilt. Don't forget.
7)Material Girl
This is another typical worthless girl. She puts more value into worldly material than the warmth of soul. For her, the most important thing is that she has to look good in what she wears or what builds her image. It may be the latest Nokia handphone or every new top at Mango. She has to have it. She values how much you love her according to how much you spend on her. She just loves to be spoiled. A relationship with this girl will just be shallow. Next please...
8)'Himbo-oglers'
This kind of girl places a lot of value in the flesh rather than what emotional stability a guy can give. He has to have drop dead looks before anything else. This is another common type of shallow woman. Guys, you know what to do, get in and get out... Just don't get burned.
9)The Party Girl
Being with this kind of girl is usually a strange relationship. She may love you but will dish plans with you at anytime for an Event happening at a local club. You sometimes feel she is attached to clubbing instead of you. She always has late nights out and rarely invites you. Dressing up and dancing and drinking are her specialities. Who she knows and where she has been are her diplomas and degrees. Little does she know you whou love to spend a nice quiet evening with her at home where you can hear each other without having to shout to compete with noise levels. Its impossible to meet her in the day because, just like a nocturnal cat, she will be sleeping from her exhausing night out. She will usually have a group of friends just like her. You know when to dump her if you sneak you
